"I know people who think vegetarianism is an eating disorder!"
Sadly, the way most people learn about vegetarianism is in high school, where it may actually be the first signs of an eating disorder. Kids trying to control their food can lead to heavier disorders.
I went veg when I was five and never ate meat again. I'm 28 and I still run into people who are amazed I'm still alive (!!!!!!).

Raw is just another lifestyle choice.

I was trying very hard to go raw one summer whle dating a meat eater. He didn't get my vegetarianism to begin with, so the raw thing was just too hard to explain. We didn't last, but at least I got him to look at food lables and not buy "juice" with corn syrup in it. It's the small steps that matter.

I would hope your husband would see how much better you feel on raw and that would help him understand. Seems like the best we can do is to be an example. I learned a long time ago that preaching you food choices to others does no good (I'm not saying you are).
My mom is in the same boat. She made a fantastic raw pumpkin pie and my dad wouldn't touch it b/c it was raw.
Maybe make him some yummy raw thing but don't call it raw, just say it's pie. I get people thinking (or at least not questioning) with my chocolate cinnamom rolls all the time. Let him see how yummy the food is!

I agree. Just go about what you want to do for yourself. It took awhile for my husband to get used to me not eating wheat and gluten. Now he's more conscious of looking at labels and such. I know it's not just for me b/c now he's curious what certain things are. I feel the more you try to get someone to understand to the point of argument, they're just going to resist and back away more about it. That's what I did. When my husband saw how much better I felt, he came around.
I'm not 100% raw, but I do include as much raw food in my diet as possible.
Good luck! ;-)